A combination of factors and the reasons why the child is lying most of the time, it is known that lying is a problem that must be resolved skillfully defective, it is our duty as parents we teach our children how to solve these problems in ways more positive. Here are some of the reasons why children are lying:
• to create an identity: one of the methods used by children to establish their identities and communicate with men, and can also be caused by exposure to lying to pressure by their comrades. It is likely that your child lie on others about things he says he did it, but in fact does not have it, all of that in order to make them admire him and believe that a child is wonderful.
• uniqueness for parents: Teenagers sometimes used to lie in order to remain part of their lives separate from their parents, and at times it may seem that they are making up some lies about the small things that may not seem very important. And another reason why boys are lying on their parents; he and feel when they realize that the rules of the house and its restrictions become narrow and stiff them.
• For Attention: When your child is small lies are illogical, and this behavior can be a way to attract little attention. When a small child says: «Mama, I have seen Villa birds, or the tooth fairy out the window», I think it is totally different from telling your child the greatest: «Mama, I finished my school», knowing that he did not do it. This is not FALSITY, but it is for young children and a way for them to activate their imaginations, and to start understanding the outside world around them.
• To avoid hurting the feelings of others: at some point, most people learn how to reduce the size of some of the things in order to avoid offending others. Instead of saying: «I love your shoes new». We can say: «This shoe seems a fashionably in vogue these days». This is in regards to an adult, but for the small different story because they do not know the complexities that are known to adults, so it is easier for them most of the time lying. I think we as adults know how to say things more carefully, and how to temper the impact of some of the things without that we cause harm to others, but the children do not know how to do this, so be lying to have as a first step toward learning how to say things carefully more.
• To avoid trouble: Most of the boys are lying from time to time to get out of the problems. To move and they put themselves in the position is incorrect, or that they did something not to be done (if the break the rules of the house), or they did not do household chores such as cleaning the consequences of their rooms and rearranged. If they felt that they have no escape from the consequences of their actions to avoid, the lie will be the only way to avoid the problems. At other times, the cause is the public who pays children to lie is that they do not have other means to deal with the problem or dispute. In some cases, it can be a lie is the only way they know to solve their problems, it seems like a skill to survive, a skill defective children.
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