Today's children face a range of pressures encountered more than previous generations in middle childhood, and that may come to him from a number of sources, some of which comes from the same child, or teachers, or parents, or colleagues, or society in general.
Pressure and take many forms, from the challenges that must be bypassed by the child, or adjust to them. This may result in the presence of a slight pressure hassle with parents because of homework, so parents must understand that it is part of daily education for children. It also welcomes children some events and be able to deal with it, but others change constitutes a threat to them, and cause them troublesome.
The most pressure that children are exposed part of the education and learning, and the growth process itself, where they learn from these situations and stages a lot about themselves. The worries of the child to make friends, or succeed in school, or to compete with colleagues and physical difficulties to overcome them. If the pressure and tension and pose a long-term stressful for the child may be adversely affecting him.
As well as the child may be exposed to major events, especially the changes that occur to the family, and can permanently affect the mental health of the child. But the result from pressure edits the daily consequences, too, as if to cause loss of appetite, or the speed of the anger of the child, or the delay in the study, or change behavior and the unwillingness of the child to cooperate and respond to the directives of the parents, or bouts of crying, or nightmares and sleep disorders.
The different moods of children in dealing with the pressures and stress daily. Some children be quiet by nature, and can adapt to new events. Others loses his balance easily as a result of changes in life. All children can also improve their ability to deal with the pressures and challenges, management or if they feel that they have the emotional support of family and friends.
The degree of the effect of pressure on the child, according to age, when you change the mid-grade teacher during the first year of the study the effect will be significant, while no such change represents only a nuisance for the child in the sixth grade. The fact that the child is a minor issue for short children 6 years old, but it is a daily source of embarrassment for teenagers. So dependent response of the child to the pressure in part on the development of his abilities, and the composition of his personal experience, and also personal temperament.
It is a mistake to believe that the parents of small children, and they are of school age do not know the meaning of the daily pressures. Children are very sensitive to changes around them and expect appreciation from the parents. If one of the parents work exposure to the problems threatening his job will be on the child adapt to this change in the physical life of the family. As well as the illness of a parent is a sense of danger to the child, and failure is an athlete or a sense of physical weakness.
According to many psychologists, faces of children and adolescents of today are more pressure than previous generations, at a time when declining level of social support available to them, as a result of changes in the structure of the modern family, and the erosion of the extended family, and the increasing divorce, and busy parents at work. Today's children are exposed to greater pressure because of their peers and colleagues as a result of increased consumption and competition. This leads to more insecurity.
The best ways to aide the child to cope with these pressures, some of which is to overcome the emotional and social support, and understand the nature of the pressures that they face, and helping them to adapt and live with it and forming experiences. It is useful to deal with some kinds of pressure and stress, especially as physical pressures are benign and good, and lend a helping hand, knowledge and advice on the management of nerve pressure to compete for sports, where is the good management of the pressures a nerve keys to success.
And help the large number and diversity of activities between athletic, artistic and social abilities on the discovery of the child, and to promote confidence in himself, and allow him to develop his abilities to overcome challenges..
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